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Jun 26, 2017

In last week’s podcast episode, titled “What Most Couples Do That Creates Problems,” I talked about how couples tend to try and resolve their concerns through their partner.

In a short video by Dr. John Gottman (renowned relationship expert and researcher), he talks about this dynamic. In Gottman’s language, he...

Jun 17, 2017

We look to solve our concerns through our partner.

We spend our time trying to get our partner to see what THEY are doing wrong and get them to see our perspective. We think, “If I can just point it out to them in a way they can hear it…” “Or if I can give them a good enough example and illustrate my point,...