Dec 13, 2018

GUEST: MARTIN UCIK

Martin Ucik is a German born entrepreneur who trained with Eckhart Tolle as a Power Of Now group facilitator and founded www.singles2couples.org, an Association for Healthy Relationships. His studies of Ken Wilber’s Integral Model allowed him to integrate his personal experiences as a divorced...

Dec 4, 2018

In the last two episodes, I explored the drama triangle. In episode 156, I discussed what the drama triangle is and how is shows up in our interactions with others, especially during conflict.

In episode 157, I explained how we can easily get wrapped up in the victim position and how this can negatively affect our...

Nov 16, 2018

In the last episode, I discussed the destructive nature of the drama triangle. When faced with conflict, we may quickly see the roles of the persecutor, victim, and rescuer emerge. Although the information isn’t specifically directed to a couple, it can help rid of the victim mentality in relationships.

If you missed...

Nov 7, 2018

TOPIC: SYMPTOMS OF VICTIM MENTALITY IN RELATIONSHIPS

FEELING LIKE A VICTIM IN RELATIONSHIP IS AN AWFUL FEELING

In relationship, we want and need to feel safe, loved, and valued. When difficult things happen, it can be extremely painful. Sometimes, it is a condition or circumstance that is challenging (like a health...

Oct 12, 2018

TOPIC: HOW TO OVERCOME ENVY IN A RELATIONSHIP

ENVY

Envy is a normal human experience that results from comparing ourselves to others, and the feeling that we come up short in the comparson.

In the article, titled “To Love and To Envy,” by Dana Shavin, she writes “Envy is the emotion that arises when we feel that...