Aug 29, 2016
LASER COACHING SESSION WITH LISTENER
Please listen to the episode to hear the whole coaching session.
MAIN POINTS
1. You can’t change your partner.
2. You CAN work with your partner, if they are willing.
3. By having a different conversation (exploring a new way of dealing with conflict), you will gather more information (i.e. Is your partner interested, are they able, are they willing).
4. Don’t make agreements that you cannot keep, even if it means disappointing your partner.
5. Develop a new system for dealing with upset (i.e. how do we approach each other, how we deal with pain, upset, and disappointment). How do we both get our needs met when there is a conflict?
Developing a new dynamic together takes time and support. There are a lot of reasons why we gravitate towards certain tendencies and patterns. This is where relationship coaching can be really effective.
MENTIONED:
- How To Know If You Are Too Critical In Relationship & Why
- What Does The Development Of Intimacy Look Like In Relationship?
TRANSCRIPT:
Click on this link to access the transcript for this episode: ERP 076: How To Deal With Upset In Your Relationship In A New Way
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